We still feel as though we have a right to be a sexual being as well as everything else. Margaret, aged 67
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For women, while you could join a book club or go on a shopping trip, you’re more likely to find men at the ballpark or in the game room, our survey suggests. For men, while you could go fishing or hit the links, you’re more likely to find women on the dance floor or in the crafts room.
13. Volunteer in your community. Museums, hospitals, churches, animal shelters and schools are always looking for people to help out. Find opportunities in your area at AARP's createthegood.org or VolunteersofAmerica.org.
But online connections are only one way to stay connected. Don’t neglect the value of spending time with people in real time. Granted, older individuals who no longer work or who live away from extended family may find it difficult to meet other seniors in real life, here are seven ways to help you meet seniors in your area:
Here are 15 spots that are great bets for finding available men near you, plus what to say to strike up a conversation once you see an interesting man.
Nearly one-third of the USA’s aging population experiences loneliness and/or social isolation, which puts them at greater risk for serious physical and mental conditions, such as hypertension, anxiety, depression, and cognitive decline. One in seven Americans belong to the 65+ age group, and that population will continue to grow to nearly a quarter of the population by 2060.
Even if it may seem like a strange concept, rethinking your current and past relationships can lead you to unexpected romantic realizations. As Reddit user spotthj pointed out in the AskWomen thread, the love of your life could have been in your life the entire time.
5. If you're retired, take a part-time job, even for just a few hours a week. It will expose you to new people and give you a little extra pocket money to boot.
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Meetup.com is another online social group that connects individuals with others with common interests (as opposed to those interested in dating). To find others who share your love of square dancing, photography or culinary adventures—sign up and enter your interests and location. You can further narrow your search by inserting “senior” in your search and you’ll see opportunities to meet others in your age group.
Not only is it fun, but reaching out to your peers is good for you. According to a 2016 study published in the Journal of Gerontology, seniors (even those in their 80s) who stay connected with family and friends using social media report feeling better and less lonely. The study also determined that those seniors who stay connected also demonstrate higher executive reasoning skills.
