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I usually clock off when I've hit my goal (between £700-£1000) around 4pm when I resume my usual day.
However, MyFreeCams isn’t exactly perfect. For one, since you’re getting free adult webcam shows here, you don’t really have the option to opt for a private show, much less a private chat, unless you work out a deal with their models outside the site. Suffice it to say it’s like going to a strip club where you’re surrounded by your fellow depraved self-fuckers; all you could do is enjoy the show.
Lastly, MyFreeCams almost exclusively features the best female cam girls, so there isn’t a lot of diversity here.
It's something I had to get used to as I'm a super nice person. Being mean to someone because they enjoy it is a hard one to crack.
For the most part, you really just have a couple of options when it comes to adult webcam shows. It’s either, one, you go the “free” route and pay via tips inside the best public rooms where you get to share your performer with other folks out there rubbing and sweating all over themselves just like you are.
But you must know that StripChat isn’t for everybody. Despite its positive traits, this cam spot exclusively offers you the best FEMALE models. Sure, they have a “couples” section, but it’s very hetero. They have lesbian cams as well, but we all know it’s mostly aimed at male audiences.
The first site I worked on had a culture based on privates—whereby viewers paid by the minute for my time. During privates, viewers made specific requests of me, which I pressured myself to comply with for fear of them ending the private show. I felt like I’d felt almost every time I’d had sex IRL: like I was just going along with what they wanted because I was pressured into it either by the other person, or by society, or by myself. In all of those situations, I told myself I had seduced them, ergo I needed to have sex with them. Now I was being paid—I owed the viewers.
I do also speak to a lot of married men who are persistent in trying to meet me, a regular of mine has actually mentioned “love” and leaving his wife, we speak around five hours and he's developed feelings.
Having agency over my body was paramount to being able to experience pleasure. Pleasure is difficult because pleasure comes with vulnerability. Allowing someone, including yourself, to give you pleasure is an incredibly vulnerable and intimate place to be. You can only get there with the safety that comes from consent, whether that’s with a single partner or with a chat room full of viewers.
As a cam girl I realized this agency, this pleasure, was how sex was supposed to feel. My experience with sex up until this point in my life had been warped, I realized. And I finally understood why: I’d been wrestling with the shame of childhood sexual trauma that I wasn’t ready to confront.
